Beloved Community or not?
Beloved Community or Not?
A few years ago, I wanted to be involved in a church that was close to my home.
The church supported causes that I was passionate about. I was excited for the chance to serve with this team of people. I joined a bible study to get to know a few people. I shared with the group my desire to serve and I was later connected to one of the ministry leaders. In a brief conversation, I learned two of the three ministries did not need any more people. The third ministry was open, yet I attended three meetings before doing any service. I learned this church was not for me.
In a neighborhood 20 minutes from home, I joined a fitness boutique. It was more than a place to workout. The members welcomed me. I felt right at home. There were smaller groups within this fitness community: reading group, movie club, dinner club, etc. The smaller groups created space for intimacy in conversations. I made many friends.
Later, I learned of the many community outreach projects the owner supported as a business. The “Back to School Backpack Drive” and “Adopt a Family at Christmas” were two major outreach opportunities for participation. I was welcomed to volunteer to wrap presents at Christmas and stuff back packs at the beginning of the school year. Of course, my donations were encouraged. It was a wonderful feeling to be a part of such an act of love and service to others. I was also thankful I didn’t have to sit through multiple meetings before engaging in work.
As I reflect on these two scenarios, I ask myself, “How do I welcome people who want to be a part of a community I belong to? Do I communicate excitement and hospitality, or do I discourage with obstacles like meetings so I don’t have to engage?”
God created us for community. We all should have learned that lesson in 2020.
We have a chance to make a difference in someone’s life when we include them to be a part of something. They may not have experienced the support and love a community can provide. Likewise, the community can be blessed by including someone, even if it is uncomfortable, who wants to be a part of our community.
Take time and reflect. Maybe it is a bible study, book club, or maybe a birthday lunch club. Do you lean toward one who welcomes? Or do you discourage engagement because it may feel uncomfortable? If you find yourself in this situation, take a chance and welcome someone looking to be included. You may be a blessing and be blessed
